Thursday, June 9, 2011

I want your love, I want your revenge

I could seriously write the BOOK on bad romances. First, if the guy NEVER wants to see you in person, he's a bad egg. If the guy NEVER wants to make ANY plans in advance with you, he's a bad egg. If the guy hits you or calls you names, he's a bad egg. I've had them alllllll.

At the present time, I'm not involved with anyone. That's not to say that I'm not interested in anyone. It's just not possible for me to act on that at this time. I really need to find a social life so that I can meet people that I can become involved with.

As for online dating, I've tried that too. Generally speaking, what I've discovered is that people are not all that honest on those websites. And, to be perfectly honest, some of the TV commericals that they have for those websites disgust me (I'm thinking of Zoosk here). I've only signed up on match.com and eharmony.com but that was moooorrrre than enough for me to realize that online dating is not for me.

Eharmony tried to match me with my brother. Fortunately, I have a good sense of humor and I found it rather amusing. My brother, not so much. He canceled his subscription and sent them a letter about checking their facts (we were living in the same house at the time AND we have the same last name... some sort of technology should have caught that lol). While we aren't married to each other, who's to say that that couldn't have been the case as well? Speaking of...

Have you seen ads for that dating website that promotes infidelity??? Where did the morals go??? What happened to commitment and trying everything to make it work with the person you swore to love, honor and cherish until death???? *sigh* Thinking about this makes me sad. I would NEVER cheat on someone. Never. Morally, I think that it's wrong. But, also, it's hard enough to keep up with what ONE person likes, wants and needs. I can't imagine the level of deception that is required to keep up with MORE than one persons likes, wants and needs. :|

I have a busy weekend ahead of me. On Saturday, I'm going to be participating in the Lupus Walk in Orange County in the morning. That evening, I have a bachelorette dinner to go to for an old friend. On Sunday, we are celebrating my dad's birthday with our family. I still haven't gotten him a present and I haven't got a CLUE as to what to get him. I'm taking Monday off from work as a vacation day and I'm going to Disneyland with my cousin, her daughter and my nephew. It should be an interesting experience. Cross your fingers for me, as I've never taken him out in public before by myself! I hope I don't lose him, or his parents will murder me lol. Fortunately, my cousin's daughter will be there. She's four and my cousin has another kid (who is staying with my aunt), so she's a parent of kids. She's got the mommy-watch thing down pat! :)

I'm exhausted. I need to go to the gym, but I hate the gym. Actually, I just hate exercising, in general. I've been on Jenny Craig for two weeks now, and I did lose a pound since I last weighed in two weeks ago. Now, if I could just stick to the diet and exercise a little bit, I know I would lose more weight and quick. I just don't have the motivation that I need to exercise. Sure, I want my clothes to fit better and I want to get a swimsuit that looks good on me. But those factors are not motivating me enough at this point. I think I'm just lazy.

And I'm hungry. I have food here, but I haven't eaten it yet. For some reason, a chicken pocket and fish and chips did not sound appealing at breakfast. And I cheated and had fried mac & cheese from Del Taco for lunch. Look, see? I just said that I need to stick to my diet and I'll lose weight, but what did I do for lunch? Freaking Del Taco. Bad form, bad form....

End of the day, again... I'm out. :)

1 comment:

Jen said...

Months ago, I heard about how they have dating websites geared toward married people. It is sad. But I still say, never say never because you don't know what life throws at you and how you will react to them.